There are two philosophies of leading one's
life. One says that a person must work for progress and on this path there is
no need for him/her to stop. Currency coins of this philosophy are words like
'competition', 'dynamism', 'advancement', etc. Henceforth, we would be calling
this way 'progressive philosophy'. Another lifestyle philosophy advocates
developing a feeling of satisfaction with what has been achieved to enjoy life.
Although, this seems to be the objective life is meant for, it is opposed by progressive
philosophers on grounds of developing complacency, hence is counter-productive.
We term this 'contentment philosophy'.
The contentment philosophy has been the
hallmark of religious and spiritual preachers throughout human history, but for
others only. They themselves have been found involved in amassing unlimited
wealth, authority, luxuries, etc for themselves through doing business of
virtual commodity of God. Although, these exhibitionist preachers seem to have
massive following in common innocent people but none of the followers follows
what is preached to him/her in his/her practices of real life. Hence, for the
followers being faked like the preachers themselves, we keep them out of our
preview through this discussion. Even then, the contentment philosophy doesn't
lose its luster of bringing happiness to human faces.
In practice, we enjoy water when thirsty,
rush to grab a meal when hungry, we stop taking these after our needs of these
are satisfied, and feel contented. This doesn't mean that we would never again
enjoy taking water, or rush for a meal. This is where and how the contentment
philosophy is pursued by everyone even without any preacher or even being aware
that we follow a philosophy day-in and day-out. We need no exhibitionism for
it, it is purely instinctive in all forms of life. Even with this universal
pursuance of contentment philosophy, we are not rejecting the progressive
philosophy for its immense contribution to progress and development of human
civilization.
Two above-said philosophies may be
graphically depicted as shown below.
Two Philosophies of Life |
From the above discussion, it appears that
the two philosophies have their exclusive fields of application in human life,
and these can't be mixed up. These two exclusive fields of life may be named as
'home' and 'work' using contentment philosophy and progressive philosophy,
respectively. This is what I propose to counter here. Two philosophies may be
made complementary to each other with accrued benefits of both for every
individual.
Pause in between to Enjoy
The third philosophy as hybrid of the two
outlined above is to have pauses in between progress efforts to enjoy gains of
the progress already made. I would like to name this philosophy of life as
'Propause Philosophy', depicted in the diagram below.
Propause Philosophy of Life |
Specific steps of pursuing this philosophy
are -
Plan for making
progress efforts with a fixed short-term and conveniently achievable target for
reaching in the step,
Pause on
reaching the target, review the progress made and enjoy until you feel
rejuvenated for the next bout of efforts,
Plan for the
next step of efforts with another specific target for achieving,
Continue the
process of efforts and pauses mutually sandwiched, … …
With pursuance of this philosophy, it
appears that time of pause goes waste during which some more progress would
have been made, which is not the case in reality for three solid reasons.
Firstly, the wholesome purpose of life, efforts, progress and achievements is
to find happiness. Unless you have it through pauses, whole process of living
remains a waste. Secondly, each pause rejuvenates the person to make efforts
with higher efficiency for getting better results with lesser efforts, the the
rate of progress at each step is enhanced, adequately compensating for the loss
of time during the pause. Thirdly, every pause provides an opportunity for
reviewing the past efforts and results thereof suggesting what might have gone
wrong as a lesson for the future steps. This further improves performance.
Process of Ageing
Time stamps a lasting impression of
everyone's body and mind. In the first quarter of century, both grow and get
enriched. Second quarter of century witnesses slower rate of growth of body
coupled with higher rate of growth of mind. Third body growth is stagnated but
growth of mind continues with enhanced rate. Fourth quarter of century finds
the body maintaining status quo and the mind continuing to grow.
Ageing Process |
Ideally speaking, the process continues and
may cover a few centuries until the body begins to decay reaching the terminal
stage some day as depicted above. It all depends on how an individual maintains
his body and mind in healthy and active state with key being discipline in all
aspects of life with rejuvenation in between through pauses as stated above. Human
experience of Vaidic Era informs us human lifespan may go up to about 500
years.
Considerations for Age Factor
With age of a person going above 50, steps
of efforts and target need be designed with consideration of ageing on the body
and mind. Firstly, the person must engage him/herself in more of intellectual
activities coupled with reduction in physical exertions. Secondly, the steps of
efforts and targets must be gradually reduced with aim at enjoying life, rather
than destroying it with hard work.