Every moment of your life is precious because
you get it only once and it passes on whether you misuse it, disuse it or make
the best out of it. Purpose of living a moment, every moment should be getting
a happy feel. There are only 6 elements of living which are indispensable for
each and every human-being. And, mind their order of priority as provided by
their placements below.
Beware, the 6 subheads below may sound
well-known to you through noises all around from vested interests to drive you
crazy and loosen your purse for them, but the senses I attach to them are
different from what you may be knowing. So, please check out precisely through
the details.
Your Inspirations
Forces in the form of persons, nature and
wherever you put your faith on are your inspirations like the air you
breathe in every moment of your life. They are the sources of your spiritual
strength you need every moment of your life. But these sources may be
misguiding you too, if you have not chosen them by yourself but gone by advices
of others, your routine education, or as told to you by your parents and social
contacts. Religion is such a mischievous guide often thought to be an
inspiring force.
Your parents must be the first and
foremost inspirations for you but not their advices on other inspirations. Problem
of modern parents is that either they are too busy to be too good, or too
misguided to be too bad to you. Respect them as your parents, but judge their
ways of life lest these corrupt your life too.
What is not realizable by you through your intellect
and wisdom of your sensory organs can't be an effective inspiration to you.
The best inspiration is one that moves with you every moment of your life and
inspires you at your pace. Some books may pass this test, so are their authors
- living or dead.
Some people opine that a spiritual guru
is a must for uplifting force of life. This is sheer nonsense. If you
need a real guru, go to your primary school teacher or someone like him
- the greatest one to inspire you so far. For final guidance in this matter,
ask your own spirit of life and none else.
Your Spirit
Apart from owning the physical persona, you
are a spirit composed of your wisdom and intellect, built on your
instincts, education and experiences so far. Your self-esteem, self-confidence,
value system, etc are important attributes of your spirit. Respect these and
keep these beyond bargains of your routine and commercial life.
Your spirit is your guide every moment of
your life, particularly in moments of distress and excitements.
Your Persona
Basically your health is your persona but it
extends beyond that to what is usually known as your personality that
includes everything in you including your spirit of life, discussed above. It
is built through breathing in clean air, intakes of healthy food,
body-care for protection from climatic extremities through clothing and shelter,
physical hurts, etc and regular physical movements of your organs - for productive
work, a creative endeavor or an exercise. Better use your physical
movements for productive purposes and for saving yourself from paying for
others services to you. Better be self-reliant as far as possible.
Your mental health is an important
part of your persona as it is that of your spirit. It is ultimately
determined by the concepts of life you pursue in your routines, relationships
and profession. Being crazy, having a craving, getting excited or distressed
often, etc are indicators of bad mental health. Some people consider a good memory
as an indicator of mental health which I beg to differ seriously. In my view,
it is immaterial what you forget but what you remember is important as an
indicator of your mental health.
Outcomes of a healthy persona are your feeling
healthy every moment, your impressive looks, and your sensuality
for healthy relationships with your chosen persons. Never mind if you are not
accommodative to everyone for your family and social relationships. None is
made to accommodate all.
Your Relationships
Each one of us has relationships, or
is expected to have, in four sectors - with the self, within the family, within
one's society, and with professional colleagues, superiors and subordinates. Anybody
failing in having a sweet relationship with the self would fail in making any
relationship of some value. Loving your own values is the criterion of relating
to the self.
It is better to have good relationship with
everyone coming in contact, but it is the best to take care of your value system
through your relationships too. So, don't worry if you are at variance with
some persons in your contacts.
Again, it is not important whom you drop from
developing sweet relationships, but it is critical whom you keep in contacts.
Ultimately, you are known by the company you keep. So, don't tarnish your image
by pleasing everyone, be your real self in developing relationships.
Your Aspirations
Etymologically
as well as in practice, aspirations are set just opposite to
inspirations - former for influencing the external world and the latter
for getting influenced by the external world. Human life has a purpose
of coming into existence and living for a long period of time for is intellectual
evolution.
Every work has an intellectual value in it,
respect it, enhance it and continue with it. This makes every moment of life a
moment of intellectualism. So, live purposefully every moment - at home,
at work and even during a relaxation. Set your goals on long
term, medium term, short term and even for every momentary step of your life
and move on with them.
Your Economy
Human life has evolved differently from
natural way of living, hence has economic considerations at every moment
of it. Take care of your personal economy through working productively enough
for a living and support to the family. But don't nullify yourself with the productivity
syndrome - keep on working for wealth losing health and other pleasures of
living. Keep a balance between personal, working, family and social life. For
an average person, recommended durations are 12, 6, 4 and 2 hours,
respectively, on an average in a day for a happy and contented lifestyle.
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